I wish society didn’t always need courtesy and ritual. Sometimes I wish we could just walk up to people, tell them how we feel and what we want and they wouldn’t be offended, but in fact be enlightened by the honesty of it.
It’s annoying to go through this obstacle course of pleasantries and small talk with a lady, when quite frankly I wish I could just say “Hey I want to sleep with you, and I think we could both have a good time if we progressed into intercourse.” And that would be met with either a “Honestly, no not yet” or maybe “Yes that sounds good.” Or any other normal un-offended answer.
I know that sounds horribly crass but it would be nice to skip ritual and habit sometimes. OK, for a less crass example, why must it be such an ordeal to confess feelings or for a couple to come together? I don’t consider myself an expert on the inner workings of relationships and the heart, but really we should be able to skip all the small talk and the what-not and be able to be straight up like “hey this is how I feel…”
And when ever someone does come out like that, it always seems to be at some sort of breaking point or as a grand gesture. Why not just come right out with it? Kind of sick of all the games, and wish outright abrubt honesty would be more accepted. I know, I know, it will never happen because we’re a society of habbit. But hey, it’s nice to dream.
Yes, there is a lovely young lady in which I wish I could just walk up to and say “Hey I really want to fuck (or some other less abrasive synonym) you. Not just for the fun and pleasure, which much would be had by the way, but I think the connection and closeness would be nice.”
But I won’t because unfortunately that would just be met with disgust.
It’s annoying to go through this obstacle course of pleasantries and small talk with a lady, when quite frankly I wish I could just say “Hey I want to sleep with you, and I think we could both have a good time if we progressed into intercourse.” And that would be met with either a “Honestly, no not yet” or maybe “Yes that sounds good.” Or any other normal un-offended answer.
I know that sounds horribly crass but it would be nice to skip ritual and habit sometimes. OK, for a less crass example, why must it be such an ordeal to confess feelings or for a couple to come together? I don’t consider myself an expert on the inner workings of relationships and the heart, but really we should be able to skip all the small talk and the what-not and be able to be straight up like “hey this is how I feel…”
And when ever someone does come out like that, it always seems to be at some sort of breaking point or as a grand gesture. Why not just come right out with it? Kind of sick of all the games, and wish outright abrubt honesty would be more accepted. I know, I know, it will never happen because we’re a society of habbit. But hey, it’s nice to dream.
Yes, there is a lovely young lady in which I wish I could just walk up to and say “Hey I really want to fuck (or some other less abrasive synonym) you. Not just for the fun and pleasure, which much would be had by the way, but I think the connection and closeness would be nice.”
But I won’t because unfortunately that would just be met with disgust.
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